When we see things as they are we can make informed decisions, we can make the BEST decision to move on or mold and shape our lives around it 'what it is'. Wishing for bad situations to be different will only bring pain and disappointment...It does not allow you to become the wonderful person that you truly are...it just keeps you stuck. 

I've been stuck for too long. I'm stepping back now and looking at what really is, it is not the ideal situation and i'm making a decision for the better.